For me, these words really describe the world in which we are currently living. This concept originated with students at the U.S. Army War College, but these words have taken on a new meaning in today’s world. The impact that the COVID-19 virus has had on our lives is beyond a health crisis. The loss of so many lives and the loss of jobs and livelihoods for millions of people has left in its wake many people who are fearful, angry, and uncertain about their future and that of their friends and families.
How can we help our family members, friends, co-workers, neighbors, and those who are in dire need? Yes, we should share some of our resources and help local businesses and charities. But, what else can we do?
LOVE, LISTEN and LEAD
Love
We need to show kindness to all; even those who are not kind to us. We rarely know the challenges or pain that another person is going through in their lives. Grieve and cry with those who have lost a loved one and be with those who are lonely and afraid. Realize that we unaware of how much other people are suffering. By showing care and concern for another person we can help them realize that they don’t have to face their challenges alone.
Listen
Sometimes people just need to vent or process what is happening to them by talking to another person. Listening to another person without judging them or judging their choices is a true gift. It enables the person to feel their emotions and sharing those emotions can relieve stress. Then they are more able to make logical decisions for themselves. Showing empathy and concern for others let them know that you really care about them. Most people have few if any people in their lives who will truly listen to them.
Lead
No matter what title or position that you hold, you can be a leader for those around you in times of crisis. In fact, it always amazes me to watch who steps up to meet the challenges inside a company or a family. These individuals don’t wait to be told what to do; they see a need and they take action. Today, many of us are reluctant to act because of fear or uncertainty. Be the person who stays calm when those around you are giving into panic or anger. Provide the direction and wisdom that those around you need in order to make a decision and move forward. Take the next step. Keep moving! And above all, never, never, never quit!!
As the Co-Founder and Principal of The Angel Advisors, Alan Lowe has devoted his career to helping executives—from Fortune 500 companies to startups—successfully assimilate into new roles, create powerful teams and develop cultures that attract and retain the best talent.
Combining more than 30 years of experience as a partner-level management consultant and executive coach and having more than 32 clients at a point in time, Alan recognizes that no two individuals have the same goals for personal fulfillment or professional growth. He focuses on understanding each client’s goals, determining how his or her business fits into the bigger picture – and then gives them the tools they need to achieve their entrepreneurial purpose.
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